“The Bully and the Boy”
- Dean

- Jul 14, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: Jul 25, 2025
We’ve all seen a scene like this—on a sitcom, in a movie theater, or streaming from that eternal ether where stories live on.
There’s the bully: big, awkward, heavy-footed, full of undeserved arrogance. His posse trails behind him, wide-eyed at his swagger and dominance, feeding off his false power.
And of course, there’s the kid—scrawny, maybe a bookworm, maybe a little league shortstop. Quick, sharp, grounded in ways well beyond his years. He’s no show-off. But he’s self-possessed. The kind of kid who makes the girls take notice—taller than him for now, clutching their books, cheering his quiet confidence, drawn to his ease in his own skin.
Then it happens—the train wreck we all see coming.
Maybe it’s after a game, on the walk home, or in the schoolyard. The bully steps forward with his crew. He starts with the usual: a taunt, a push, maybe a shove to the kid’s back or a slap to the shoulder.
But this time, the kid doesn’t flinch.
He turns. He stares the bully down.
The posse giggles. The bully, caught off guard, flushes red with embarrassment.
Then comes the charge—full tilt, fists flailing, arms windmilling as the bully barrels forward. We cringe, watching this wave of brute force bear down on a boy we fear is helpless.
But he’s not.
With a calm step to the side, the kid ducks beneath the chaos, matador-like. The bully stumbles forward, momentum unchecked, struggling to stay upright.
By now the crowd has grown. The girls. A few teammates. Spectators sensing something important in the air.
Again the bully charges. Again the kid dances away, skipping circles around his panting nemesis. It doesn’t take long. The bully tires. His fists slow. His breath shortens. His arms drop.
The kid sees his moment. And—well, we all know how it ends. The bully slinks off, defeated. His posse, newly disenchanted, drifts away. The audience cheers. The earth rights itself.
We remember these scenes in adulthood—maybe even with a smile—but in times like these, they become something more. Parables. And like all good parables, they speak truth in metaphor.
They remind us that the bully never really leaves. He returns in different forms—louder, richer, crueler perhaps—but no less clumsy, no less desperate for dominance.
And just like in the stories, it still takes someone to stand their ground. To hold the line. To sidestep the chaos. To believe in decency, conviction, and the principles learned at our mother’s knee—forgotten at times, but never lost. Tools we need now more than ever.
As I write, I find myself thinking of Muhammad Ali—the way he danced around his opponents, skipping, floating, leaning back, letting them exhaust themselves with rage. Then, with elegance and timing, he struck.
That little kid? He can vote now. He sees the bully coming. He knows the rhythm of the fight. He watches the flailing arms, the empty fury, the self-embarrassment. And he doesn’t flinch.
I think I’ll fire up my black mirror tonight and stream some old Ali footage. What a guy.
Dean is a longtime resident of the Highlands. He writes occasionally, listens often, and still believes in decency as a revolutionary act.
A wonderful piece with vivid imagery and an insightful message. Thanks for sharing Dean!